Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Samuel's First Swimming Lesson

Last Thursday 22nd April, Samuel had his first ever swimming lesson. He was just shy of 7 months.

I started Thomas when he was about 6 months but had to get in with him. Anyone who takes a baby swimming and then has to stand there freezing and dripping while they first change the baby into dry clothes will know what a drama this is! When Daniel arrived, he was so close in age to Thomas that I couldn't possibly take them both for a swimming lesson in which I had to get in with both of them. So we kind of stopped for a while.

Then when Daniel was just over 1 year old I found someone to give them private lessons! Not only is she wonderful and patient (and believe me, this is a definite requirement of the job with my boys) but there is the added bonus of me not having to get in the water! Yay!

Some people think I'm silly for starting Samuel so early but I'm not a strong swimmer myself and wish I myself had started swimming lessons at a younger age. I also worry about the boys falling into pools, dams, ponds, creeks etc. Being adventurous little souls, you just never know where they may end up! If they have some basic survival skills under their wings, they'll at least stand a chance if any of the above scenarios occur.

Samuel's first lesson was only a short 10 minute introduction to the water but I was so proud of him!

Thomas and Daniel were super excited that Samuel was going swimming. Samuel just looks worried...
a common state when his big brothers are around lol

Here he is with the wonderful Karene. He didn't particularly like back floating
and shed some tears after a few minutes...

But hey, kicking he can do! It's his thing! Oh so cute!

And holding on for dear life! God bless him!
But big as Samuel's first swimming lesson was, an even bigger story was breaking across the country and talkback radio was consumed by it! I only heard it as I finished the lesson and got in my car. This story probably doesn't really matter to anyone other than those living on the Eastern side of Australia (excluding Tasmania) and maybe a few countries abroad...but if you follow Rugby League and are passionate about the game and your team, then this story was and remains HUGE! The Melbourne Storm, superstars of the game and a team who have dominated the game for at least the past 5 years were revealed to have rorted the salary cap in a massive and calculated way... they kept two sets of books and were illegally paying their superstars way over the salary cap! 2 million dollars over in the past 5 years! No wonder they were the team to beat!
But more shocking than the revelation that everyone's suspicions were confirmed was the extraordinary punishment handed down by David Gallop (a grey hairs expert by now) and the National Rugby League. Not only were the Storm fined and docked the 8 competition points they had earned thus far in the competition this year, but they were also stripped of 3 minor premierships and the 2 premierships they won in 2007 (against Manly) and 2009 (against my beloved Eels)!
But wait, there's more! Being stripped of premierships meant they also had to pay back hundreds of thousands of dollars in winnings...and then the killer blow - they could continue to play this year but would not be able to accrue any points! This last piece of punishment has divided fans, players, coaches, officials and anyone else who has a stake in the game. To me it seems silly, but unlike those who think they should be allowed to play for points as a motivation factor, I think it's stupid because as they stand they are still an illegal team...they have a playing roster that was put together through deceit and under the table payments! Taking a pay cut ain't gonna cut it in my book either! Get rid of some players and get under the cap then be allowed to play...I know, easier said than done. But for opposition teams still having to play them, how is it fair to let them continue on?
Some have also taken this opportunity to argue the merits or otherwise of the salary cap...I think most people agree the salary cap needs to be overhauled but an unfair system doesn't excuse a club from breaking the rules (in a major way)! Sorry, but just because the rule is unfair doesn't mean one team gets special permission to do as they please.
Of course Melbourne's former CEO, Brian Waldron, who has been squarely blamed as the mastermind behind the fraud, is claiming that salary cap rorting is widespread and that everyone is doing it. (He claims that a few years ago every single team was definitely rorting the system with the exception of Canberra, and they were only clean because they wouldn't afford to pay players more). Another fine excuse - everyone else was doing it so we did as well! How old are these people again?
I want to believe that my team are squeaky clean. The reality is probably far from it. But again, an unfair system doesn't excuse breaking the rules.
The drama continues to unfold...and loving league as much as I do, I'm glued to every piece of new (and not so new) information that comes up. What's your opinion? Even if you aren't a league fan, from the little I have shared, what would you have done?


Saturday, April 24, 2010

Samuel's Christening

Can't believe I haven't blogged for so long! Well actually, yes I can...because I always seem to fall into these periods of non-blogging. Funnily enough, my followers increase when I don't blog....not sure that's such a good thing lol

On April 18th 2010 we celebrated my youngest son's Christening...and I wanted to document it briefly on the blog for future reference. So here are a few photos from the day which was beautiful in every way! Samuel was gorgeous and an absolute angel and his Godparents - Pat & Cathy and Dom & Cherie were amazing.


Invites by Scrap4U , now on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/Scrap4U

Gorgeous Samuel

Daniel on the left and Thomas on the right - besotted with their little brother. Samuel's outfit was made by my mum and has now been worn by all 3 boys :)

Samuel even won the deacon over with his beautiful smile and shining eyes

Samuel with his wonderful and generous Godparents (from left to right) Dom, Cherie, Cathy & Pat

Yay, a family photo! Not perfect but getting there!

Place cards by Scrap4U and cookie favours in the form of a cross by my talented sister in-law Barbara. For anyone in the Sydney metro area who is interested in purchasing either cookies or a cake for an event, please contact me and I will pass on her details!
Gorgeous and classically elegant...cake by Cake Occasions, Paddington, Sydney

Beautiful candle created by Gerace Design

Thank you gifts from Samuel and ourselves to his Godparents
You probably all found this post extremely boring (sorry) but I like to document major events. I write this blog not only for myself and for you who read it...but also for my precious boys, so one day they can look back and read an account of their lives.
Stay tuned though...I will try and post again very soon (possibly tomorrow or Monday or Tuesday - you get the drift) with an account of Samuel's first swimming lesson which just happened to coincide with the biggest sporting scandal this country has seen!

Thursday, April 01, 2010

WHAT THE NEIGHBOURS HEARD THIS AFTERNOON

Here's something else to amuse my blog readers (or not). This afternoon as I was feeding Samuel, I hear my mum saying something to Thomas. I didn't quite get the gist so I asked her what he had said... trying not to double over in laughter, she responded:

Daniel did something to him (him being Thomas) and Thomas answered back "F***** Hell you will!"

Once again I was mortified (seems to be a pattern in my blog posts lately). I stormed over to the door and stupidly asked, "What did you say?" In a loud clear voice, Thomas replied "F***** Hell". Well aware the whole neighbourhood could probably hear him, I told him to be quiet and then rationally explained that he shouldn't have said what he just said because it is very rude!

His response? Also in a loud, clear voice: Well why do Mums and Dads say it?

For those who don't know me, I am not a foul-mouthed Mum letting swear words rip left right and centre...if anything, I have been trained (as a teacher) to not even say "shit" in front of kids! But admittedly, my own kids are not the same as the classroom kids. "Shit" along with maybe one or two other semi-swear words occasionally leave my mouth in the boys' presence. "F***** Hell" is not an expression I bandy about but really I don't have any solid defence. I may very well have uttered it under my breath in front of the boys. Or out loud. Who knows? We simply forget they are sponges... For the record, I have no doubt it has slipped out of Sam's mouth at some stage, oblivious to the fact that the boys are within hearing range.

Anyway, I told Thomas that Mum and Dad do not say that but even if we do, it is because we are grown-ups and grown-ups are allowed...am I about to be pillared by perfect, upstanding blog readers? Thomas replied that he was grown up - evidenced by the fact that he is about 10cm taller than Daniel! I told him that doesn't make him a grown up and that to be a grown up he has to be 20 years old (adulthood changes all the time, depending on the conversation I am having). Apparently he doesn't want to wait that long...

So there you have it. The neighbours not only heard clear and distinct swearing by my 4.5 year old but they also heard that it was learned from Mum and Dad. Lovely.

Okay, I'm going to hide now before you all start berating me! Or you can tell me similar stories and make me feel better :)